It takes pretty much the same things to be a good submissive as it does to be a Christian. It takes faith in the person being obeyed, obedience to everything commanded whether understood or not, and the desire to please this person above all else.
I've been thinking this through for a long time, because it's been tugging at my mind. As a wife, scripture teaches that I should be submissive to my husband, but dominant in my everyday life. A good wife does not second guess her husband, but she is in charge of her house and household, like an alpha submissive. She gets up early in the morning to survey the land, keeps track of money, and purchases what she needs to, but she also sews clothes for her house, making certain that her family stays warm.
If the person being obeyed is not trustworthy, then unless the submissive understands every command, there will be doubt in everything commanded. The submissive has to know that the Master has put them first, and trust this. Otherwise, the self-preservation instinct in the submissive will take over, and it will be much more difficult for the submissive to obey without questioning.
Jobs of a submissive
Obey the Master without question.
Fill the needs of the Master
Fulfill duties laid down
Love the Master
Make Master happy
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