Jessi's Rules

Jessi's Rules

May 24 2011

I trust that my Master will balance His needs, my needs, and the needs of His other sub/s accordingly.

i must be both specific and explicit in my speech.

(my speech must be consice and to the point, not withholding information, or lying.)

i shall wear the collar my Master gives me with pride for it signifies His ownership of me and my devotion to Him.

i will learn all the positions my Master wants to teach me to the best of my abilities and will be prepared to take such positions when required and to display myself in a manner through them that He, and others who may be present, will find most pleasing.

 (i will learn my positions the way I am taught, and will submit to these positions without question upon request of my Master.)

The safeword given to me by my Master can be spoken at any time-even when i have been told to be silent. If i am not able to verbalize it - i trust my Master will show me how i can express it. Safewords are for my protection as well as His. i must be careful not to take more than i can handle, as He will need to know when to stop from getting carried away with His own passions - so that i may be prepared over time to endure more for Him.

(i will use my safeword when necessary and will use nonverbal gestures when unable to speak. My safeword is "red," my cautionary word is "yellow.")

i shall never think of myself as a weak person for it takes a strong female to commit to the drive inside me, to serve, to obey and to please a Master. i too have responsibilities and as natural as they may seem to me it is important that i use all of my faculties including my creative spirit to submit to a Master in a unique fashion personal to my relationship with Him. By doing so i hope to provide a good example to those females around me who may still be learning so they too are not led astray from their primary focus, that they are as true to their nature as i strive to continue to be to mine. i must remember that how i well i behave enlightens and empowers me to become even closer to who i am - a devoted slave, of good rapport to a Master who truly understands my needs in relationship to His own.

I will show the proper respect to myself and my body in my words and actions. I am my Master's property and do not have the right to speak badly of something He treasures.

i will suggest ways to further my training or use of me, verbally or through my journal. ---Blogging rule--- I will blog daily. If I am in a situation where I cannot blog, I will ask permission not to blog from my Master, so that He knows I am thinking of my responsibilities.

Eating properly rule

i will periodically examine my whole life and look for how it has changed as a result of my relationship to my Master. i will speak to my Master about those areas where there have been improvements and those areas where i feel uncomfortable, insecure, or unsure of what direction i should take, how i should behave, or how i can behave in a manner that is different than how i have been behaving in the past.

2 month notice on when i will be leaving the household. No uncollaring self, or immediately. Also, what that long thing above this text says.

Above all else my primary focus shall be to please my Master,hoping that He finds me pleasing in all that I do, whether i am in His presence or not. my Master knows of my potential, learning more about me in each day i am with Him. He trusts that i will act in accordance with what He perceives of my potential - He knows what is best for me and how important it is that i set a good example for other females who may be present around me.

i will not hesitate when responding to my Master and will respond both verbally and physically  (Jakes rules)

i choose willingly to be treated as my Master's property - as long as such treatment is safe.

i will not date without permission and approval from my Master.

previous relationships are not under consideration but, all future relationships, must be approved by Master.  Friend requests on fetlife, must ask Master to accept.

my safeword, verbal or otherwise, cannot be used when i am being punished. Can be used, and is at Master's discretion.

i must never be concerned when i feel too much of my flesh is showing, in private or in the general public - however, i can ask my Master for permission as to how to handle my discomfort.

The only clothing i will buy and wear will be those items which my Master would find pleasing to Him: fitting to my figure and its assets, of good quality, of reasonable cost, and appropriate in His eyes and taste for the occasions i am allowed to attend with or without Him. i may ask if i may choose what to wear so i may be able take an opportunity to surprise Him to win His favor.

Rules:

1. I will not cut (or self-injure in any other fashion).
2. If I feel the need to self-injure, I will go to my Master and alert Him of these feelings.
3. Dress to kill; I will always look my best, both to please my Master and to better represent Him in and out of His presence.

4. I will remember my place in my Master's priorities. (God, wife, submissive, work, group, family...)

http://glass-shards-through-glass.blogspot.com/2011/04/basic-slave-rules.html

What are your rules?

"i have much to learn in order to become a well-trained and well-behaved submissive." (Callback)