big family talk.

Jessi (pretty light purple)

Monthly Budget

+$300 income a month
-$130 insurance
-$70   gas
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leaves $100 for other bills, groceries, etc.

Jessi is looking for a 2nd job. Note, took Master 6 months + to find one,
so Jessi should speak w/ her manager.


Both Girls

• Make an overnight bag, including meds, inhalers, change of clothes, punishment implements.
• NO excuses for not doing something as ordered. Do first, ask about alternate options later.

 Jessi

• NO questioning
• Deal with negative feelings. Don't use pain/negative feelings as a place to fall back on. 
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Emily

•  Attitude. 
• Discrete Public Punishment

Daddy

•  Allow Jessi to be more expressive about negative feelings "Get over it" or "Don't think about it"  "'Get over it' should translate to 'fix it.'"
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Private things stay private. Confidentiality.