Protocol, orders, and rules, how I interpret them
Protocol:I will address Him as "Sir" or "Master" when possible (not around parents, or within other "Vanilla" situations).
I will learn and, when ordered to, take on the following positions:
Position One: Standing up straight, feet positioned at a 40-degree angle. Arms firmly at my sides, thumbs inward, pointed down. I may answer questions or respond to my Master (when appropriate) in this position.
Position Two: Sitting on knees, hands folded in lap. Master calls this the "happy position"; I am allowed to speak and show emotion.
Position Three: On knees, hands behind back, head bowed slightly forward. "Listening position".
Modified Three: On knees, head bowed slightly forward, hands held out in front. "Offering position" (used when presenting something, such as food).
Position Four: Feet shoulder length apart, good posture, hands behind back, staring forward. No looking around, no facial expressions, no speaking.
Position Five: On knees, leaning forward, hands behind back, nose 1-inch from the ground. "Punishment Position".
I will not interrupt my Master when He is speaking.
I will thank my Master when appropriate and for punishments.
I will ask permission for any action that I am unsure about.
I will openly communicate with my Master, answer questions when asked, and not keep secrets.
When He is not present, I will obey Master's slave as I would obey Him.
Specific Orders:
I will block Adam from contacting me, and in return, will not contact him or view his online profiles.
I will take my medications as prescribed.
I will eat when I am hungry, and only stop when my body is satisfied.
Rules:
1. I will not cut (or self-injure in any other fashion).
2. If I feel the need to self-injure, I will go to my Master and alert Him of these feelings.
3. Dress to kill; I will always look my best, both to please my Master and to better represent Him in and out of His presence.
4. I will remember my place in my Master's priorities. (God, wife, submissive, work, group, family...)
http://glass-shards-through-glass.blogspot.com/2011/04/basic-slave-rules.html
My needs as a submissive, and as a friend:
1. Clearly defined rules and expectations. I can be sort of dense, and sometimes I need things to be spelled out for me.
2. Play-time! I wouldn't say that I "need" play on a regular basis (though I would love that), but I do need it sometimes. I've come to realize that not only do I enjoy it, but it's a great emotional release for me.
3. The ability to share things in confidence. I would never expect Master to keep anything from Emily, or vice-versa. I do hope that I can share things with both of you without having to worry about anyone else finding out, though.
4. Time to focus on work and school...this Fall, it might be helpful to have scheduled study time.
5. Affection; plenty of hugs and cuddles.
6. Quality time together; watching movies, playing video games, talking, hanging out. (Of course, I understand that this is not always possible/sometimes you will both want time alone, or time together without me. But I'd like time with you, at least some days.)
7. To be loved.
8. No Restrictions on family/friends
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I wrote the new rules down before, but I want them altogether somewhere, so here.... we.... go! (Batman, the Joker)
1. I will not cut.
2. My Husband will be informed of my desire to cut as it occurs or increases.
3. I will take care of my body with proper hygiene, eating habits, and will also wear attractive clothing and make-up for my Husband.
4. I will use the title "Sir" appropriately when speaking to my Husband, but will replace "Sir" with "Baby" when in public.
5. I will show the proper respect to myself and my body in my words and actions. I am my Master's property and do not have the right to speak badly of something He treasures.
6. I will show the proper respect and deference to my Husband; He is my Master and deserves the best I have to offer.
7. I will walk with confidence in the knowledge that my Master loves me. I will not keep my head down, I will show pride in being His possession, especially when in public.
8. I will not hold back my feelings, emotions, or voice during sex or sexual play unless otherwise directed by my Husband.
9. I will use my safe word, stairwell, the return word being ladderwell, when I have need to.
10. While wearing my collar, I will obey my Husband's commands as if each were my own thoughts. I will put on my collar (or other token of submission) in the morning when I wake up, and will not take it off until I go to bed at night, take a shower, or are otherwise directed to do so by my Master.
11. I will blog daily. If I am in a situation where I cannot blog, I will ask permission not to blog from my Master, so that He knows I am thinking of my responsibilities.
We have been discussing changing my 3-strike policy end punishment. Currently, I am punished for each mark I receive on my hand, and then when I get three, I am punished for that mark according to Master's wishes, and then the 3-mark overall punishment is anal. I suggested it to Him (and he seemed to like the idea) that instead of doing anal, since it's not as much of a punishment as it used to be (I'm getting better at being able to take it) that needle-play would be a more appropriate punishment since I'm so scared of it. It would make me dread fucking up, and I would try harder to please my Master. He hasn't changed it yet, but He was considering it at one time, and we never really came to a specific decision on it.
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Needs and Expectations: Master
Master's Needs of His submissives- I need a way to punish My masochistic submissives
- I need My submissives to be respectful
- I need My submissives to obey without question, even if Timmy is giving the orders.
- I need My submissives to make a conscious effort to please Me.
- I need My submissives to dress to impress Me.
- I need My submissives to keep track of My Wallet, Phone, Keys, Hat and Coat
- I need My submissives to never embarrass Me in public.
- I want to go out and socialize a lot. I don't want to drive, and I won't want to go home.
- I want My submissives to come to Me for advice or with problems that they have
- I want to spend money on My submissives. Tell Me if there is something you like/want
- Do Not make Me feel inferior or stupid, even if it's math.
- I want sincere feedback or even criticism after scening
- I need My submissives to do what I ask, even though it is difficult
- Epileptic. No big deal.
- Keep the damn house clean! (Added by Susy)
- I have scening needs. If I need to scene, not a big deal since there's two to choose from. :)
- Speak more respectfully to My submissives
- Give them more credit when they do good stuff!
Needs and Expectations: Jessi
- Trustworthy scening partner
- Someone I can trust to make decisions (a Everyday (b Emotional Attachments (c advice about scening partners (d intervention while scening if needed
- Financial : Jessi needs to make a list here. (Thongs... need size and desired style)
- Frequency of Scenes: At least 2 times a month, at the very minimum.
- Someone who will give advice about life issues that I have.
- fellow submissive to talk to
- Role Model. Someone to watch to see what I should be doing.
- Occasional reminders about things I should be doing.
- Learn Positions
- Memorize Rules
- Input on a budget to avoid going broke
- Learn to negotiate scenes without help
- Learn to use my safeword when i need it.
- Learn to be more polite/respectful while speaking.
Links to show time period this was pulled from.
http://handcuffedwriter.blogspot.com/2010/11/needs-and-expectations-jake.html?zx=8e33978a25d70702
http://glass-shards-through-glass.blogspot.com/2011/05/protocol-orders-and-rules-how-i.html
http://glass-shards-through-glass.blogspot.com/2011/04/basic-slave-rules.html
Look up Gor/Gorean female positions/ training.
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