my Rules, with new additions

I wrote the new rules down before, but I want them altogether somewhere, so here.... we.... go! (Batman, the Joker)

1. I will not cut.
2. My Husband will be informed of my desire to cut as it occurs or increases.
3. I will take care of my body with proper hygiene, eating habits, and will also wear attractive clothing and make-up for my Husband.
4. I will use the title "Sir" appropriately when speaking to my Husband, but will replace "Sir" with "Baby" when in public.
5. I will show the proper respect to myself and my body in my words and actions. I am my Master's property and do not have the right to speak badly of something He treasures.
6. I will show the proper respect and deference to my Husband; He is my Master and deserves the best I have to offer.
7. I will walk with confidence in the knowledge that my Master loves me. I will not keep my head down, I will show pride in being His possession, especially when in public.
8. I will not hold back my feelings, emotions, or voice during sex or sexual play unless otherwise directed by my Husband.
9. I will use my safe word, stairwell, the return word being ladderwell, when I have need to.
10. While wearing my collar, I will obey my Husband's commands as if each were my own thoughts. I will put on my collar (or other token of submission) in the morning when I wake up, and will not take it off until I go to bed at night, take a shower, or are otherwise directed to do so by my Master.
11. I will blog daily. If I am in a situation where I cannot blog, I will ask permission not to blog from my Master, so that He knows I am thinking of my responsibilities.




We have been discussing changing my 3-strike policy end punishment. Currently, I am punished for each mark I receive on my hand, and then  when I get three, I am punished for that mark according to Master's wishes, and then the 3-mark overall punishment is anal. I suggested it to Him (and he seemed to like the idea) that instead of doing anal, since it's not as much of a punishment as it used to be (I'm getting better at being able to take it) that needle-play would be a more appropriate punishment since I'm so scared of it. It would make me dread fucking up, and I would try harder to please my Master. He hasn't changed it yet, but He was considering it at one time, and we never really came to a specific decision on it.