Rational.

After being awake a lot and thinking about this last night, I'm pretty upset that Major would try to change the way I act by using our friendship and it's benefits against us.

He is not my Master, and has no authority over me.
Yes, he is a dominant, but that only affects our friendship through the way we play, not the way we interact. If he can say that's 1 to me and be able to take something away from me because we're friends and he's just playing, then I should be able to do the same thing back and it should be perfectly fine.
With Jessi, it affects scenes, which is a part of our friendship that his domination reaches, so I can understand that. Cuddleing is in no way related to scening, and he is not dominant over me when we cuddle.

I lose a lot of respect for him because of this. Jessi and I listen better than his own submissive, and he hasn't put as much effort into training her as he has into dominating our friendship.

I will not accept this. If he feels that he has to manage someone else's property before he manages his own, then I don't want to play with, snuggle, or interact with him. It makes me uncomfortable to think that he is trying to sneak into a dominant role over me. Master punishes me by giving me marks. I don't have to accept them from anyone else, and I won't.

We are all in agreement concerning this. Even Phiar agrees to uphold this until something changes.
We will not play with him, allow him to touch us, or seek out his company until this is settled.