Every issue or concern I’ve tried to address with her has been sidestepped, ignored, piggybacked, or used as a reason for one of her breakdowns.
I told her repeatedly what I wanted or needed in the relationship and never felt heard.
On top of all that, she was a complete asshole to you for several weeks before the breakup. She was passive aggressive, rude, dismissive of you, and downright petty. She was distancing herself from you, and didn’t want you around.
The fact that she thinks this is “out of nowhere” is fucking comical.
No, I don’t want to “be friends” with her. I understand that there were good parts, but I know what I have to do to protect myself. And because I VALUE MYSELF, I’m not going to keep emotionally investing in someone who has made an art of having a bigger more urgent breakdown than me every time I’m upset.
I know that I am incapable of being around her without falling into every empathy trap.
So I’m not going to.
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