A submissive is someone who lets another specific person or group of people tell her what to do. She does this because she enjoys serving or making this person happy. She can serve a specific function, like sexually pleasing, or she can serve generally by just following commands.  Being a submissive can be a role-playing, part time role, or it can be a full-time, serious role. It is not easy to listen to another person all the time. It is very hard, especially when one or both parties is angry, wrong, or just plain does not feel like fulfilling their role or duties to each other. Since submission is giving over a part of oneself to another, it is necessary that the submissive fully trust and respect the dominant. Without that trust and respect for the other person, neither the submissive nor the dominant can fully commit to the power exchange part of the relationship. One doubting the other can cause the entire relationship to falter. A full time D/s relationship, while more serious, is not without it's own types of play and fun. While the "yes sir's" are full time instead of on the weekends and during sex,

--I don't know a lot about having fun and play in a submissive role yet. I was asking more questions about that, but kyle says there are. ---


Claire