And damn it, it's reads like an advertisement

There's this feeling I get sometimes, that people really want to talk, but no one wants to talk about kink.no, not "kink" like who said what and why you're pissed about it. I mean kink. I mean the reason we are all supposedly in this people blender together, wandering around and talking to people we would otherwise have no opportunity of knowing. I mean the nitty gritty fantasies , that deep need growing in the dark that drives you to look for others like us, that thing you want most but tell no one for fear that when it leaves your mouth it might break. 

I can almost guarantee its not "floggers" - it might be "whips" but it's probably not just picking up a flogger that does it for you. Each toy has its own potential. Maybe you crave bringing a person to orgasm without touching them. Maybe you want to hold a flogger in your mouth and try not to drop it while taking a beating. Maybe you want to hear "come here, I need to bend you over something", maybe you need to bend your partner over something and fuck their brains out just so you can breathe again. Hell, maybe you want to eat a donut off of a penis. Why not? Maybe you want to be tied standing in a spreader bar and have your genitals repeatedly drilled with a leather bat. Or do it to someone. Until they cry. 

That's what I want to talk about.