Stretching my fingers but getting out some feelings.

There is a time and place for being a little.
To be told that Michele cannot ever be asked to "adult" because that is "putting little in a box" is unrealistic, and unfair. There are times when things need to be negotiated, or important adult conversations need to be had, (or Relly needs service) and if every single conversation starts with a guilt trip that we are keeping you from "little-ing" and repressing your little, no progress will be made.
Assuming that your little will get to make all the decisions about what she wants to do, or have the same authority that you would if you were in adult submissive mode is unfair. If you are going to act like a child (be a little), then you cannot expect not to be punished in the same way if you are disobedient or acting up.
So far all verbal corrections have been the same as they would have if given to a child.

It is extremely unfair that you claim you will be able to serve and that "adult Michele" will be around and then every time we see you, you are always in little mode and never in adult, responsible, learning/training mode unless you are unhappy with how things are going, and then you change to "Adult Michele" to tell Relly off, but are unwilling to listen while adult michele.


Things that make it increasingly difficult to handle little:
"mine"
"little's mind not work that way"
"you are putting little in a box"